Part 1
Think before you criticize,Criticism puts person in defensive, it wounds a person, it could not make lasting changes, demoralise a person and could not bring the change, no resentment, thousands pages of history, alter the floor of history,
People rewarded for good behaviour learn more frequently, incur resentment, resentment can demoralise your family members your team members, pleasant tone of voice, no resentment, blistering in thousands cases of people, review the facts, human nature is blaming everybody but themselves ,
when we are dealing with people we are not dealing with the creatures of logic but we are dealing with creatures of emotions, THOMAS HARDY, THOMAS CHARTEDEN,
Flexing problems, what will Lincoln do if he was in my shoes, dictated but not read, indulge in stinking criticism, I will speak ill of no man ,and speak all the good I know
Any fool can criticise, condemn and complain . And most fool do, and it takes character and self control to be understanding and forgiving, great men treats by their
Endure till death, How sincere appreciation can change the life of a person, the beginning of a new life, some people reacts its flattery , bare oil, it never works,
I am talking about a new way of life, 95% times we are talking about ourselves, All in our interpersonal relationship people are hungry for appreciation, jeer at him what a bad job he is doing , he is wasting his time.other people give him appreciation and Recognition,
Everyone I meet is superior than me, u learn something from him, appreciation should be honest not flattery, It is childish, it is absurd,
The only thing on earth to motivate other people is to know what other people want, to bait the hook to suit the fish,
Why talk about what we want, it is childish, u are internally interested in what u want, just as u we are interested in what we want, the only way to influence people on this earth is to talk about what they want,
Part 2
Criticism are like homing pigeons, it will always return home, pleasing impression on everyone, extraordinary success, all things comes through desire,
Part 3
You cant win an arguments,
To get best of the arguments is to avoid it, you cant win an argument, if u lose it u lose it if u win it u lose it, he was trying much of its success, Stop verbal fights,
I was simply Unloading my feelings, See things from other point of view,
Friendly conversation began, show manship, with new day comes new thoughts and new ideas, asked for piece of joke, the desire to excel, without a challenge Roosevelt could never been the president of USA,
Part 4
Talk about your own mistakes, Before criticizing anybody think about your own mistakes, effective leaders ask questions, difference in approach and difference in results, shaking with fright, Lack of experience not lack of ability,
How to encourage people,
When we are dealing with people, Remember we are not dealing with the creatures of logic, but we are dealing with the creature of emotion,
Thomas hardy the finest novelist english writer enriched the English literature comit sucide because of Criticism, endure until death, i will speak ill of no man, and speak all the good i know of everybody,
Any fool can criticize, complain and condemn, and most fools do, but it needs character and self control for understanding and forgiving, tongue lashing, Impatient with interruption,
Habit of finding fault and reprimanding, Instead of condemning people let us try to understand them, Let us try to figure out why they do what they do, it breeds sympathy, tolerance, and kindness, to know all is to forgive all, God does not propose to judge all unless the day of judgement,
Anybody to do anything, sex urge or desire to be great, desire to be important, Craving to be appreciated, desire of the feeling of being important, civilisation would have been impossible, feeling of importance, Blasted all the hope, There are some people who go insane if they are not appreciated, By giving feeling of appreciated, arouse enthusiasm in your people,
The greatest asset we have is the skill of appreciating and encouraging our people, criticism kills a person, Word of praise is incentive to work ,
What do average people do, power of appreciation, value of appreciation, appreciation can be start of a new journey, flattery seldom work shallow, selfish , insincere, is some people are so hungry, so thirsty for apprecialtion, so swallow any thing, he was genius in his line, difference between appreciation and flattery is one is sincere and other is insincere, appreciation begins a new way of life, cheep praise is flattery, It can be spotted before it is out of our mouth, all our associates are human being and hungry for appreciation, people start doing their work efficiently, i shall pass Let me do it know, let me not defer, everyone i meet is superior and i have something to learn, people will cherish your word and treasure them,
Understand the other point of view, We are interested in what we want, unselfish divine act, Give your people good feeling before u can give them money, you make your contribution because u need something, Kicking and screaming in the room, kinder garden, he was sleeping in the sofa,
Before u start your talk with a new person, ask yourself, How can i make a person to do this ?
How to make all profit possible ? Advantages and disadvantages , note it down under these headlines. See from other point of angles and also yours, it can have a reverse effect, Grateful for your patronage, He who can do this will find all world behind him or else he will walk alone in life, He was persuaded by you. His pride was involved, psychological moment, feeling of importance, let them cook themselves, if you want to conquer fear, go out and get busy,
I love my audience, He make many friends in pursuit, month and day of his birthday, we are interested in others when they are interested in us, Appreciation may be sincere, it may pay off, it is two way street, profoundly affected my life, Loneliness, despair and fear,
Captivating smile, Baby smile has the same effect, smile is bringing dollars for me, Happiness is not a outward condition, but an inward condition, Greet your friend with smile, keep your mind on splendid things, Preserve your attitude, your smile is a messenger of good will, sun breaking from the cloud, all is not hopless, there is hope in the world, value of smile, it costs nothing but ....,
Be sympathetic with other people ideas,
if you dont do this, you are heading for trouble,
He made a system for remembering names, his name was misspelt, He made millions by using the same psychology, statesmanship, so sorry i could not get your name, how it is spelt, royal highness, the name will play magic, Name is the sweetest words to your ear,
Become a good conversationist, she was not interested to listen to my trouble, Compliments stimulates a peeson, i am genuinely interested, listening is highest form of compliments, There is no mystery, listen to successful leader patiently, concentrate on all points he shared, receptive mode, u have done a great favour, he came from chicago , thanking him not scrapping him, mislead , gave me his apologies, fail to make impression because they are not good listeners, we all want audience, dissatisfied customers, powerful concentrated attention, 100% guranteed people despise you here is the recipe,
Dont listen to them, intoxicated by their Ego, hoplessly uneducated , Ask questions other people enjoy answering,
How to interest People , rough rider, Talk about he or she treasures most, What will interest this man, what a response, it was not my hobby but it was the passion of my life, other people interest, make everybody feel blessed,
What is honestly in him that i can admire, it is really a difficult question , radiate happiness, priceless, i have done something for him, law of human conduct, countless friend and constant appreciation, do onto others as u want onto you, or u will put yourself in endless trouble, craving for appreciation, this urge differentiate human being from animals, speculation for human relationship, valley of happiness, philosophy of appreciation will create magic in your life, i feel sorry to trouble you, good breeding, mecca for tourists, heart felt appreciation, hidden fire inside you, Am i good enough, deep desire to feel important, You are important, all student i face are equally important, Bost of their ego, Make angels weep, Principle of appreciation, without hurting the feeling, spring in the desert, you have a lovely habits, response of gentle appreciation was striking, honest admiration, most famous business man on earth, Alleviate the suffering of humanity, terror of poverty haunted me day and night, experimented all night,
You cant win an argument, i have experience the impact of thousands argument, you can never win the arguments, speechless no argument, I scrapped my years arguing with people , i keep my mouth shut now, it pays, if u rankle, argue and contradict, win an argument at times, it will be an empty victory. Or u lost a good will. Changing others mind is concern, Longer the argument, more stubborn he became, changed the subject, i think this is a very important and peky matter, I have got the knowledge from books but you have got this from firing lines of experience, i sometime think to have job like yours, it would teach me a lot, hatred is never handled by hatred but by love, Desire to see other people weak point.
Chapter 11
Chapter 12
Chapter 13
Chapter 14
Patience of angels, Be in high spirits,
Chapter 15
Discouragement and failure is the stepping stone of success, unique conference, wrong idea about the whole proposition,
Unusual ability, Battle against ridicule and all odds, Brag about his triumphs, talk about myself less, do other person do more of the talking, listening to my boosting,
Chapter 16
How to get more cooperation, ram my thought to put down the throat of other people, moral bargain, consulting about my wishes, do me a little favour, rejected thoughts, planting the idea casually, conquering the heart of people, Let me sell myself, Do the hard job first, the easy task will be taken care of itself.
Chapter 17
The magic formula,
Chapter 18
Chapter 19
Chapter 20
Dramatise your idea, Each nation feels superior to other, this is patriotism,
Chapter 21
Overcome the fear, Dont scare, humanising criminals, fringe benefits, work itself motivates people, the desire to excel, heart to help, fear doesnt exist anywhere except in mind,
Chapter 22
Very pretty dress, very attractive young women, blushed in confusion, dont get stuck up, i just said to make feel u good, little more careful with punctuation,
Chapter 23
without giving offence, behaviour we wished to change, No direct criticism, Dont disgrace yourself, effective way to correct peoples mistake indirectly,
Chapter 24
Sorry to confess, i will punch him in the nose, humility and praise can create miracle in your life,
Chapter 27
Sage words, Using half part of physical and mental resources, your magic is your ability to praise and appreciate people , they blossom in appreciation, nature of righteousness,
Chapter 28
No of compliments u have been working, Virtues to developed, startling transformation, u do not know what treasure u have within u, reputation to live upto, Difficult role of leadership,
Chapter 29
Belated lessons, There is no trick , it is only memory, Learning is easy and fun, if u wants others to improve use encouragement,
She kept praising my dance, that encouraged me, tell ur child he is stupid and u will destroy him, is it a impossible goal, we celebrated each , Unbelievable Discovery Learning is easy and fun,
Alter the history of the world,
Chapter 30
Intimate friend and advisor, Doubly important, secretary of the treasury, contented with his refusal, substitute speaker, legends of hinour, all tresspasses of his lawn, Be sincere, do not promise anything that u cannot deliver, .
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