Saturday, 9 March 2024

Reading Practice (Developing your Personality)

              Developing your personality 

Developing your personality is a journey of self-discovery, self improvement and growth. Personality development is the process of refining ( शुद्धीकरण ) , enhancing ( बढ़ाना ) your characteristics ( करेक्टरस्टिक = चरित्र, गुण ) , Attitudes and behaviours. It is a journey of understanding & knowing  who you are.

PD is a process of consciously working on your thoughts, behaviour and emotions to become the best version of yourself. It's about growth and self Discovery. 

A strong personality helps u to navigate life challenges with confidence, build meaningful relationship and achieve your goal. It influence how you see the world and how the world sees you.

Personality development (PD) is a lifelong process.  PD is shaped by our experiences, our relationship, and our environment.  But you can also actively influence it through self-reflection, Learning new skills and stepping outside your comfort zone.

Starting with your personality development (PD) journey : 

Self reflection

Self reflection is the key and very important practice of PD. Reflect on the thought where u started the journey and where you want to reach.  Drawing mental pictures of your future. Self reflection encourages you to become your best version.

Self-reflection is a journey not a destination. The more you practice it, the better you'll understand yourself and more you will grow as a person. When you grow as a person, all the material success, the emotional success will follow.

Journaling : is a tool to write down your feelings and thoughts and this tool becomes the powerful tool of self-discovery and self- reflection. 

Always practice writing , what you want to become and what you want to return back to the society.  Thinking is not enough, write down your positive feelings and positive emotions, that u want to return back to the society.

Meditation : can help you bring peace and power to your mind. When u sit for meditation  imagine the possibilities of the future.

Practising meditation can make your mind more aware of your inner thoughts and emotions.

Reviewing experiences : Take some time to reflect on your recent experiences both positive and negative. What can you learn from them.

Seeking feedbacks : Ask your trusted friends or mentors for their honest feedbacks on your behaviour and how u can improve.  

Personality development refers ( संकेत)  to the process of developing (विकास), enhancing ( प्रगति) and changing one's ( वन्स) own ( ओन )  personality over the time. It's about becoming the best version of yourself ( अपना सर्वश्रेष्ठ बने) .

A strong personality can boost ( बूस्ट) your confidence, improve your communication skills and help you build stronger relationship. It can benefit, your career, social life and overall well-being. 

Self exploration : ( स्वयं की खोज )

Discover your values ( मूल्य, कीमत ,भाव ) : what's important to you, in your life? Is it honesty, compassion ( प्यार और दर्द )  creativity ( खोजने की शक्ति)  or something else ( या कुछ और) ? Understanding your core values, will guide your decisions and interactions. 

Reflect on your strengths and weaknesses

What are you good at ? What areas could you improve in ? Honest self assessment is crucial for growth.

Building confidence

Step outside your comfort zone : Try new things, meet new people and challenge yourself. This will not only build new skills but also boost your confidence. 

Embrace a growth mindset : Believe that you can learn and improve with effort. Don't be afraid to make mistakes, see them opportunities to grow.

Factors that influence your personality: 

Nature vs nurture : Both genetics and environment play a role in shaping your personality. 

Heredity : This includes your temperament and physical Attributes. 

Environment: your upbringing, experiences , and social circles, all contribute to shape your personality. 

Self-Awareness:

  • Identify your values and strengths: Reflect on what matters most to you in life. What are you good at? Understanding these aspects forms the foundation for an authentic personality. 

  • Developing your personality is a journey of self-discovery and growth. Here are some key areas to focus on:

Areas to Develop : 

Self awareness : Understanding your strength and weaknesses,  your values and goals,

Confidence; Believing in yourselves and your abilities. 

Communication skill : You should be hungry to listen people. When you are great listener, you are a great solution provider. P⁰expressing yourself clearly and effectively.

Social skills : Building positive relationship with others, ignoring their weaknesses and highlighting their strengths.

Emotional Intelligence: Managing your emotions and understanding those of others is the key for handling teams .

Resilience: ( रेजिलिएंस )= ( लचीलापन) Bouncing back from setbacks and challenges. He has shown great resilience to stress. The employees showed great resilience and loyalty inspite of challenges and difficulties. 

The rescue workers showed great resilience in dealing with difficult conditions .

Cold temperature caused the material lose it's  resilience.  The job needs a self-confident person with resilience to stress.

Here are some key areas to focus on:





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