The art of influencing People

One of the most effective ways to influence others is to show a genuine interest in their lives and perspectives. 

People love to talk about themselves, and by asking thoughtful questions and actively listening to their responses, you can build trust and rapport with even the most challenging individuals.

Take Responsibility,  Never Blame other people for your Failure or setbacks. 

Success is rare so is the follower of success principle.

Mediocre people play the game of blaming others. Successful take charge for everything

Your appeal direct connects to the audience, and 

The good orator keeps his focuses on his audience . 

They gauge their audience's reaction and adust their message accordingly.

Your speech can become dry and dull without Humour.

The speaker should be very clear from the very offset ( begining ) .

Without Humour speech can become dry and monotonous .